--- title: Montrose School Blog | Dr. Karen Bohlin description: Dr. Karen Bohlin is Head of School at Montrose. --- - [About](https://www.montroseschool.org/about) - [What Sets Us Apart](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/what-sets-us-apart) - [Meet the Head of School](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/meet-the-head-of-school) - [Montrose at a Glance](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/montrose-at-a-glance) - [Mission and Philosophy](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/mission-and-philosophy) - [Board of Trustees](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/board-of-trustees) - [Contact Us](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/contact-us) - [Employment](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/employment) - [Publications](https://www.montroseschool.org/about/publications) - [Academics](https://www.montroseschool.org/academics) - [Learning at Montrose](https://www.montroseschool.org/academics/learning-at-montrose) - [Departments and Courses](https://www.montroseschool.org/academics/departments-and-courses) - 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[Givings FAQs](https://www.montroseschool.org/giving/giving-faqs) - [STUDENT LIFE](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life) - [Beyond the Classroom](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/beyond-the-classroom) - [MavNation](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/mavnation) - [Clubs and Activities](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/clubs-and-activities) - [Girls Aspire Leadership Summit](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/girls-aspire-leadership-summit) - [School Store](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/school-store) - [Montrose Traditions](https://www.montroseschool.org/student-life/montrose-traditions) - [Student Publications](http://lookingglass.montroseschool.org/) # [LifeCompass Blog](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog) ## Dr. Karen Bohlin Dr. Karen Bohlin is Head of School at Montrose. ### Recent Posts ## [8 Tips for Promoting Dialogue in a Climate of Division](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/8-tips-for-promoting-dialogue-in-a-climate-of-division) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Oct 15, 2020 5:22:47 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/Heart%20pic.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/8-tips-for-promoting-dialogue-in-a-climate-of-division) We are all breathing in the tension right now.  A presidential election around the corner.  Disagreement about a new Supreme Court Justice nominee. Heightened anxieties about the global pandemic. Political pundits are pounding their positions. And as the partisanship chasm deepens, day-to-day conversations have become a bit of a minefield.     As a Head of School, I have a front row seat to observe how teenagers are trying to navigate this terrain. When my student government team sat down to talk to me recently, here’s what I heard.  *It’s really hard. It’s the elephant in the room, Dr. Bohlin. We want to start a campaign, so everyone knows their voice is valued, heard and respected. It’s not just about debating issues.  It’s about our daily interactions— the way we listen, ask questions and really understand each other that matters. * They have valid concerns. And they have framed up their responses with a practical wisdom we sometimes lack as adults.  [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/8-tips-for-promoting-dialogue-in-a-climate-of-division) ## [Make Your Bed! And Other Ways to Learn and Thrive during COVID-19](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/teen-talk-thoughts-on-learning-and-living-during-covid-19) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Mar 19, 2020 2:50:54 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/flower-887443_1920.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/teen-talk-thoughts-on-learning-and-living-during-covid-19) Feeling on edge? A little strung out? Wondering daily—as my family, colleagues, students and friends are -- “When is this going to end? How long will it be? I just want to know!” This week, we watched thousands of teachers around the country reinvent school, moving it online in record time -- these agile, creative dedicated educators are heroes! ***Now, how do we help the students who are also being tested by these changes? *** [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/teen-talk-thoughts-on-learning-and-living-during-covid-19) ## [Life Lessons from Behind the Soda Fountain](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/kidsneedtobeneeded) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Feb 6, 2020 1:33:50 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/sodajerk_featured-e1329930541464.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/kidsneedtobeneeded) When I was fifteen years old, I worked as a waitress behind the soda fountain at a Norman Rockwell-esque ice cream parlor and homemade candy shop: Conrad’s Confectionery in Westwood, New Jersey.  Conrad’s was a delightful place. The regulars from town met at the counter each Saturday morning: the owners of the jewelry shop and the shoe store, the undertakers from the local funeral home, and the boy I had a crush on from the record shop. I grew confident in my skills and familiar with all the regulars’ names.  I could make an excellent ice-cream soda, pour the perfect egg cream and keep the dishes washed and put away -- even when it was busy.   [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/kidsneedtobeneeded) ## [The Anchor of a Parent's Quiet Love](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-anchor-of-a-parents-quiet-love) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Nov 26, 2019 3:00:15 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/father%20daughter.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-anchor-of-a-parents-quiet-love) When I was a sophomore in high school, my father drove me to school every morning. And every day, I was silent. My poor dad worked so hard to engage me. He would ask me what I was looking forward to, what I was worried about. I might offer a quick response about an upcoming test or a paper, but no more than a few words.  [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-anchor-of-a-parents-quiet-love) ## [The Courage to Live with Integrity](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-courage-to-live-with-integrity) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Oct 31, 2019 8:14:46 AM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/evening-sun-2383966_1920.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-courage-to-live-with-integrity) Years ago, I had a student who wrote an outstanding paper for me on *The Diary of Anne Frank*. Her compassion and understanding for Anne - someone who was unjustly persecuted - ran deep throughout her analysis.  [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-courage-to-live-with-integrity) ## [Coaching Teens Through Life's Challenges](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/coaching-teens-through-lifes-challenges) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Sep 18, 2019 9:27:42 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/Patti%20for%20blog.jpeg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/coaching-teens-through-lifes-challenges) “Let me do it. I can do it!  Let me try…. I want to try!” is both a familiar and endearing toddler refrain.  Young children are wired to ask questions and explore their world. As kids grow older and social expectations set in, the stakes become higher.  And often we, as adults, are not as comfortable “letting” children do, try and get curious about solving problems on their own. Once they seem hesitant, we are all too ready to leap in, fix and give advice.  But should we?  [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/coaching-teens-through-lifes-challenges) ## [The Power of a Family Story](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-power-of-a-family-story) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on Nov 5, 2018 9:11:45 AM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/DSC_6910.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-power-of-a-family-story) My siblings have been telling Grandma Bohlin stories since I was a child. “Did you know she drove from New Jersey to Boston to see Grandpa in his Drum Corps Performance?” one story began. “When she hit Commonwealth Avenue, she followed the trolley tracks underground right into the station!” Grandma Bohlin was a youthful 62 when she died of a heart attack. I never had a chance to meet her, yet I have heard so much about the days surrounding her passing that I feel like I was there. [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-power-of-a-family-story) ## [The Gift of Presence](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-gift-of-presence) Posted by [Dr. Karen Bohlin](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/author/dr-karen-bohlin) on May 16, 2018 1:56:18 PM - [Tweet](https://twitter.com/share) [![](https://info.montroseschool.org/hubfs/14938132_10154137113941733_423922557342022421_n.jpg)](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-gift-of-presence) As the students streamed through the doors on the first day of school, filling the corridors with their laughter and conversation, my heart felt full. At Montrose, we spent the summer building, painting, and transforming classrooms and offices into more purposeful spaces and places for our girls. We also engaged in deep full-faculty conversation about why we do what we do and ways we can amplify our efforts to make a difference in the life of each young woman here. [Read More](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/the-gift-of-presence) [All posts](https://info.montroseschool.org/blog/all) ## **Welcome to the *Life*Compass Blog** --- # **![Compass 10.7.16](https://info.montroseschool.org/hs-fs/hubfs/Compass%2010.7.16.jpg?width=288&name=Compass%2010.7.16.jpg)** ##### **Practical wisdom for today's parents and educators.** ###### [**ABOUT THE LIFECOMPASS INSTITUTE **](https://www.montroseschool.org/lci) ### Subscribe to Email Updates ### Most Read Posts Copyright © 2020 LifeCompass Institute for Character & Leadership. 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